So may I just say that throughout the whole process of making each craft and asking my bridesmaids to be apart of my big day, God revealed to me just how blessed I'm to have such amazing friends. Before asking my bridesmaids to be apart of my big day I pondered for a while on how I wanted to ask them. I wanted something they could 1. save as a keepsake and 2. be a reminder of my love for them as well as 3. something that went hand in hand with who I was.......which for all of you who know me that is a
LOVER OF BURLAP AND ALL THINGS VINTAGE AND CRAFY!
So for me my "go-to" store is Hobby Lobby. There I bought spools, burlap, label tags, flowers, and more in order to make the perfect secret message to ask my girls. Here was the process of it all. I cut the burlap into even strips then hot glued the burlap to the spools. After all the hot gluing, I stamped each strip of burlap with the "secret message". Then I wrapped the burlap around the spools, tied the tags around the spool and placed a flower in each. Here are some pictures of the process.
I had such a great time making these. Throughout the process I was able to think of each girl individually and what they meant to me. With that being said let me present you with my bridesmaids!:)
First and foremost, My Matron of Honor, Ellen Jussely Ellis.
Ellen is the perfect definition of a very best friend. She has been there for every season of my life. From the day we first met it was an instant friendship that I knew God placed in my life for a reason. Ellen has one of the biggest hearts you'll ever find. In Ellen, I have someone that I have so much in common with. From our love for pickles all the way to our "inner nerds" of planner and highlighters. You see Ellen is more than a friend, she is the girl that prays with me and the one that sits next to me every Sunday morning at church. Ellen is my secret holder, she is one of my many pray warriors, she is my best friend. She has been there during good times, bad times, sad times, complicated times, all out melt downs, and joyful times. She has never missed a birthday or beat when it comes to any small or significant event in my life.
She is a wonderful sister in Christ!
She is my Matron of Honor!
Next you have my soon to be Sister-in-Law, Charlotte Underwood Watts!
Charlotte, is the sister I've never had. Being that I'm the only girl in my family and having brother as a younger sibling, I never had the opportunity of knowing what it was like to have a sister. But with Charlotte I have just that. Since day one, Charlotte has welcomed me with open arms and made me feel like family even after Ian brought me home for the first time. 3 years latter and she is a great friend, sister, and soon to be sister-in-law. Most of all, aside from Ian, she is the closest thing I have to knowing my mother-in-law. I must say from all that I hear about Lynne Underwood, she is a carbon copy! I'm lucky to have her! In Charlotte, I have gained a sister-in-law who I can share laughter with and any other emotion that I feel at any given moment. Most importantly, as family member she will be there for every realm of life that Me and Ian endure, and that puts a big smile on my face.
Next, is Mrs. Shelby Mckenzie LeNarz.

Shelby is a best friend that will always hold a special place in my heart. If there is any one thing I can tell you about this girl it is that she loves larger than life. She is gentle, she is kind, and she is... clumsy ;). Shelby holds a special place in my heart for many different reasons. I wont go into the whole story, but ill sum it up like this. Imagine arriving at a big brand new school on your first day of 6th grade. Your a little nervous and as your introduced to your homeroom teacher, your mother starts to break down into tears out of sheer nervousness for you. Then you have this girl walk up to and say "Hey I'm Shelby". A little relief that someone has said hello... well yes of course. But this wasn't some random act of kindness for Shelby. This is who Shelby is. She thinks of others always. She welcomes others always. Our friendship has only grown stronger throughout the years. I laugh when I think about that day because as Shelby will tell you, God places puzzle pieces in our lives for several different reasons. She is a puzzle piece that God placed in my life on the first day of 6th grade that I will always be thankful for.
Next, you have Miss Maidee- Parker Davis.
Maidee-Parker, has been a best friend for several years. There isn't many memories of high school or college that doesn't have Maidee in them. Her bubbly personality makes it a joy to be around her. She is also one that I met on my first day at BMS. Maidee has many great qualities about her but one that stands out the most to me is that she is an encourager. She really has been one of my biggest cheerleaders throughout my life. Aside from always being there throughout life, she is also the one that I count on to eat fast food with ;) ... and she can always find a good reason to do so even if its right after we have worked out. However, in all seriousness, she is a dear childhood friend I will always be thankful for.
Next up is Miss Mary-Claire Jussely.
I dont even know where to start with this girl. In Mary-Claire I have found my other pair of Sass! At any given time that I see her she normally has a smart comment or two waiting for me and I have few saved up for her as well ;). She is also one who is a constant realm of encouragement in my life. When I'm with Mary-Claire we can sit and talk for hours about any and everything. One of my favorite things to do with Mary-Claire is talk with her about The Lord, she is a reminder of what a follower of Christ should be. With that being said, she is currently in Africa for ministry purposes and hasn't "officially" been asked to be a bridesmaid. However, she has a cute secret message waiting for her upon her arrival back into the states. I can't wait! I have missed her dearly.
On to my next one, Miss Shelbe Tadlock!
Oh Shelbe! Whatever you need to know about her, I'm most confident I could tell you. There isn't much that our friendship hasn't been through, including those catty adolescent years. Me and Shelbe have been close for years. She has always been the friend that no matter what our friendship was going through I knew I could pick up the phone and she would be where I needed her in a drop of a hat. We have laughed together, cried together, and have done A LOT of growing up together. Shelbe and I have many things in common. The biggest is our love to help others. Shelbe and I majored in Social Work together, which meant that we sat together in each class, rode together to each class, and studied together for each class. We even lived together or last year at OleMiss. From BMS to College she has been there through it all.
Okay, Half way there folks. Next we have Mrs. Sarah Crake Guillory.
Let me start off with saying that Sarah is one of my favorite people in the whole world. When Sarah stood up and spoke at her own rehearsal dinner about our friendship, she mentioned that when we get together all we do is laugh. I couldn't agree more. When I need a good laugh this girl here is my go-to. Sarah and I met through Delta Gamma up at Ole Miss. The first time I met Sarah I knew instantly that we were going to be friends. Our sophomore year is when our friendship blossomed . I have so many memories with Sarah that leaves me in tears from laughing so hard. However, one of the special things about our friendship is that although all we mainly do when we are together is cut up and laugh, Sarah and I can also sit down and have some of the most serious conversations about the many aspects of our lives.
Ok now let me present to you Miss Elizabeth Roland.
Elizabeth and I met in our first ever "dorm floor 3 meeting" our freshman year at Ole Miss. And by chance also became sisters through Delta Gamma. I love Liz for many reasons but one of the main reasons is her personality. Liz is one of the most laid back people you will ever meet. In college, it was me making the plans and always knowing that Liz would be along for the ride regardless. There are so many college memories of mine that Liz has been apart of. Since Liz was always right down the hall from me in the dorms or the bed right next to mine at the DG house she was always the one I had late night talks with about any and everything in life. Liz has shared many laughs and tears with me throughout our time at Ole Miss.
Next, is Miss Lizzy Milner.
Lizzy, had the pleasure of being just the next room over from Elizabeth in Stewart our freshman year at Ole Miss. Which meant.... that we also met during our first dorm meeting that year. Lizzy pledged Delta Gamma as well and through her, I found another sorority sister that I could call a life long friend. From our freshman year together in Stewart, to living together our junior year, as well as many of the classes we had together Lizzy and I became close friends fast. She also is one of the kindest people I know, when you need Lizzy, she is always there. Lizzy is role model for many who know her and one of which that I love dearly. She has a love for life that is contagious. She doesn't fret the little stuff and is one of the funniest people to be around.
Together, these two girls, Liz and Lizzy, mean more to me than they know. Room 16 in the Delta Gamma House consisted of the three of us. Which meant they made up a great deal of the memories I took away with me after moving out of the big white house we called home.
Next.... Is Miss Samantha Donhue.
Samantha, my little ginger. After meeting Samantha at Ole Miss my freshman year I couldn't ever picture life without her. Its hard to believe that Samantha and I lived right around the corner from each other growing up and it took pledging Delta Gamma for us to meet. This girl has had my heart from day 1 of meeting her. She may be little but might I just add that she has a huge personality and heart. She is one of the sweetest individuals I have ever met. It never fails that when I'm with Samantha we always find one more thing in common that we didn't know we had. And thats even after 5 years of friendship. She gets me and I get her. I will forever be thankful for the friend that I found in Samantha.
Now we have Mrs. Tara Brando Sullivan
Tara and I first met at dinner one night our freshman year at the DG house. The first thing that I noticed about Tara is that she talked more than I ever thought I could, which is really saying something. ;) However, the second thing that I picked up on through getting to know Tara is that we had one big thing in common. WE LOVE PEOPLE. Me and Tara are so much alike in the sense that we love to be around people at all times, we don't require much alone time, or much quite time. So needless to say when me and Tara get together there isn't any silence. Tara is also a giver. I don't think I have ever met a person that gave her all to everyone they met like Tara does. She is one of the most selfless people I have ever met. She has been there in times when I needed it most (normally with a batch of cupcakes in her hands) and some comical advice. I love Tara for that and I'm thankful for who she is!
Last but not least, Miss Kaitlin Kennedy.
Kaitlin and I also met through Ole Miss and Delta Gamma, and I can honestly say there is never a dull moment when she is around. Kaitlin has a way of making us all laugh with her comments that are almost always quite timely for when we all need it. There are many college memories that involve Kaitlin that I will never forget. Just over the past couple of years me and Kaitlin have become closer and shared more memories together. From many countless nights in Oxford from coming back home to Jackson, we have shared many laughs throughout the years. I beyond thankful for the friendship I gained by knowing her.
All 12 of these girls have played a significant role in my life in some way or another. They all mean more to me than words could ever adequately express. I was able to hand deliver most of the "secret messages" which I throughly enjoyed doing. I loved seeing all their expressions and even some shared tears in between. I'm so excited to have them with me throughout this journey of "Becoming The Underwoods".